During my 48-hour township tour, I spend my first night at Ma Neo’s Bed & Breakfast in the Langa Township. It turned out to be one of the most interesting evenings I had since I came to South Africa in 1994.
In contrary to your usually B&B, by booking a night in Ma Neo, you are invited into a genuine South African family, which was soaked in warmth and hospitality. I truly felt that I had been briefly part of a South African family, for one thing because I shared supper and breakfast with the entire family.
Ma Neo's B&B consists of two rooms, either double or twin. Each morning Mama Thandi, or her daughter Neo, treats you on a simple, but awesome breakfast that keeps you going for the rest of the day. And supper is just as mouth watering as breakfast.
What I liked about my stay at Ma Neo’s B&B was the fact that I learned a lot about South Africa and townships life. In the short time I was there, I had many long discussions about South Africa in general, township life in particular, and several social, political, and economic issues with which South Africa struggles. And of course AIDS, one of the severest problems in South Africa.
Mama Thandi, besides running a B&B, works as an AIDS counselor. This means she assists and advises people in her direct community on everything concerning AIDS. Things like, getting tested, how to get tested, and why to get tested. Also, about the necessity of taking anti-retro viral drugs (ARV’s), about how to prevent your child to get infected, and about the many myths regarding HIV/AIDS.
"I hate sangomas (traditional healers)", Mama Thandi stated. "They not only spread myths, as for instance being cleared from AIDS after having s*x with a virgin. They also take advantage of desperate people: they claim ARV’s do not work, and that they themselves have the cure. While they don’t. They just take the money and let the people die."
She told me more about her work, some of the most heart breaking and heart warming stories I have ever heard. It made me realize, once again, how massive the AIDS problem is in this country. It also made me realize that South Africa, and the rest of the world, need more women like Mama Thandi. Women who, without expecting anything in return, dedicate their lives to make lives of others more bearable.
Where?
Off N7.
Postal Address 30 Zone 7, Langa
+27 (0) 21 694-2504
maneo@absamail.co.za
http://www.sonke.org
by MiriamMannak on February 21, 2025
Ma Neo's Bed & Breakfast
Langa Township Cape Town, South Africa
+27 (21) 694 2504